Cash for Teeth: The Legend of the Tooth Fairy (2024)

Cash for Teeth: The Legend of the Tooth Fairy (1)

As an anthropologist and science writer with a background in archaeology, Kristina Killgrove is used to dealing with teeth and bones. But even she wasn't prepared for the sight of her 7-year-old daughter extracting her own upper right central incisor in an effort to cash it in. "I was initially inspired to track down the source of the tooth fairy legend when my older daughter lost her first tooth," Killgrove, who explored the legend in a 2016 piece for "Forbes," says by email. "She knew the tooth fairy was not real, but wanted to know when and why the story began."

Even if you aren't familiar with the tooth fairy's origin story, you've likely heard of her or encountered a kid like Killgrove's daughter who's perhaps a little overly excited to earn some dough. The folklore dictates that when a child loses a baby tooth, they should place it under their pillow at night and when they awake the next morning, they'll find their lost tooth has been replaced with a small amount of money, courtesy of a magical, seemingly enamel-obsessed sprite.

Unlike Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny, the tooth fairy has a somewhat enigmatic history. "I was surprised that the tooth fairy is a comparatively new legend," Killgrove says. "She started to take off with the boomer generation getting paid for their teeth, and was cemented in encyclopedias and the media with Gen X." And while other childhood characters typically have roots in religious traditions, Killgrove says "the secular tooth fairy is really a modern invention!"

So, who is this mysterious mythical creature and why is she so dead set on swapping baby teeth for cash? "Some have suggested that the story of the tooth fairy dates back to Norse traditions from the 13th century, when it became a tradition for a 'tooth fee' to be given to a child when they lost their first baby tooth," says Dr. Sal Colombo, DMD, of The Little Royals Dentistry for Kids in Jupiter, Florida, in an email interview. "The more modern tooth fairy as we know it was first referenced in an editorial from the Chicago Daily Tribune in 1908, which at that time valued the tooth fairy's contribution at 5 cents [compared to an average approaching $4 a tooth today]."

While Killgrove pegs the popularity of the tooth fairy to the childhood of the boomers and Colombo dates the character's birth back to the 1200s, writer and publisher Michael Hingston explained in his 2014 piece for Salon, that the legend really took off in the 1970s when a woman named Rosemary Wells took it upon herself to thoroughly research and report on the tooth fairy's saga.

"Dr. Wells was a professor teaching scientific writing at Northwestern University's dental school in the 1970s, when she realized there was little information about the origin of the tooth fairy legend," Killgrove says. "She worked on tracking down the origin and surveyed Americans on their tooth fairy practices for 20 years, before starting a small museum in her home dedicated to the tooth fairy. I came across her work as well as Tad Tuleja's in searching for the tooth fairy in the field of folklore studies."

"I love when people accidentally become world experts on something, and Rosemary Wells is a great example of this," Hingston said. "She asked a simple question, followed her curiosity, and ended up with a private museum in her home dedicated to the tooth fairy. How do you not root for that?"

As Hingston writes, the tooth fairy is a relatively recent creation but "rituals surrounding tooth loss date back much further than that." He points out that every single recorded human culture has some sort of traditional practice centered around the disposal of lost baby teeth, and researcher B. R. Townend broke down the various rituals in "The Non-therapeutic Extraction of Teeth and Its Relation to the Ritual Disposal of Shed Deciduous Teeth" in the British Dental Journal in 1963. As described in "The Tales Teeth Tell" by Tanya M. Smith, Townend said that cultures tend to do one of nine things: throw the tooth into the sun, into fire, between the legs, onto or over the roof of the house, place it in a mouse hole, bury it, hide it, place it in a tree or on a wall, or have the mother, child or an animal swallow it.

Americans, however, spun the legend in a unique way, blending and augmenting existing traditions to result in a benevolent fairy who rewards the dental milestone with money. And as Hingston points out, the tooth fairy's star rose at a time when Disney was introducing kind and cuddly characters that are perfectly in line with the tooth fairy's sweet and supernatural image.

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Talking to Kids

If you're a parent and unsure of how to handle the tooth fairy topic with your young tot, Colombo has a suggestion. "We encourage parents to call tooth fairy hotlines for the first tooth lost as well as remind them to put the tooth under the pillow so the tooth fairy can work their magic," he says. And yes, Googling "tooth fairy hotlines" does turn up all sorts of helpful results, including apps and local dentist's office voice mailboxes. And if you're curious how much the tooth fairy is doling out nowadays, researchers in 2013 claimed the national average to be $3.70 per tooth, up 23 percent from 2012 and a whopping 42 percent from 2011. But if you're a freaked out and frugal parent in 2020, you can breathe a sigh of relief: A 2018 study found that the national average dipped back down to $3.70, so despite the impact of inflation, it appears even the tooth fairy has her monetary limits.

And if you're wondering whether it's time to break the news to your kid that you're the one responsible for that under-the-pillow cash reward, you can relax. "We don't have a timeline to discuss when we stop talking about the tooth fairy," Colombo says. "At our office, we love to encourage kids young and old to think of the tooth fairy — it's positive reinforcement and it helps to give the children something to look forward to during a part of their lives when things are changing (for the better!). We are pediatric dentists and we revel in the mythology and the fun, and whether you are 5 and losing your first tooth or 12 and losing your last baby tooth, it's all part of the experience."

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Now That's a Mouthful

Most kids have a full set of 20 baby teeth by the time they're 3 years old and they start to lose these teeth by the time they're 5 or 6, making room for about 32 adult teeth. Most of these grown-up teeth come in by the time kids are 12-14, but the last four — the wisdom teeth — usually pop up between the ages of 17 and 21.

Cash for Teeth: The Legend of the Tooth Fairy (2024)

FAQs

How much money does the tooth fairy give for a tooth? ›

On average, the Tooth Fairy leaves around $5, but some kids may receive up to $20 for a single tooth or an exceptional tooth. Some families may give a larger amount for the first tooth lost, while others may opt for non-monetary gifts such as stickers or toys.

Why do we give money for teeth? ›

The idea of exchanging a tooth for coins originated in Scandinavia. Vikings believed teeth to be a good luck charm in battle, wearing them on necklaces. When a child lost a tooth, adults would actually pay their children for a lost tooth. Thus beginning the tradition of tooth-for-currency transaction.

What does the tooth fairy pay for rotten teeth? ›

The amount of money left by the Tooth Fairy varies widely, and cultural influences play a significant role in determining these rewards. In the United States, the average amount left by the Tooth Fairy has been on the rise in recent years. According to a survey, the national average is $4.57 per tooth.

Who gives you money when you lose a tooth? ›

One of the most memorable things about childhood is earning money from the tooth fairy for every tooth you lose. But not every tooth fairy pays the same rate per tooth.

Is $20 too much for tooth fairy? ›

$20 for a first tooth has become popular across the country, with some parents going well beyond that to try to earn the crown for the most magical under-the-pillow offerings.

What does the tooth fairy pay in 2024? ›

New Delta Dental findings from its 2024 Original Tooth Fairy Poll® revealed the average value of a single lost tooth during the past year declined by 6% from $6.23 to $5.84.

How much money do you give for teeth? ›

The last thing you want to do is cause turmoil on the playground for your kids — or any kids for that matter — as they spill the beans on the tooth fairy going too high or too low on their deposit. Based on the USA Today article, it seems the $3-$ five range creates a nice little sweet spot.

Where does a Tooth Fairy put money? ›

Her favorite use for the teeth is to place them in the sky as stars. Where does the Tooth Fairy get her money? Once she places the teeth into the sky as stars, she can magically transform any star dust she collects into gold dust.

Is the Tooth Fairy real or is it your parents? ›

They point out that there is no scientific evidence to support the existence of the tooth fairy. Additionally, some parents admit to playing the role of the tooth fairy themselves, further fueling doubts about its reality.

What age does the tooth fairy stop coming? ›

The Tooth Fairy stops visiting a child when they have lost all of their baby teeth or when they stop believing in the magic. Children begin loosing baby teeth between the age of four and eight. This process continues until a child is around nine to twelve years old.

What should the tooth fairy leave? ›

The Tooth Fairy brings children money or a small toy before she flies off to an undisclosed location. Some children write letters to the Tooth Fairy, while other families have the Tooth Fairy leave letters encouraging better oral hygiene.

How to tell your child that the tooth fairy isn't real? ›

Be Gentle with Your Response

Explain how the tradition has been passed on for decades. Then, remind them how much fun they had putting their tooth under their pillow, writing a letter, or waking up the next morning to find their prize.

What is the dark history of the tooth fairy? ›

Dark Beginnings

During the Middle Ages, the importance of ejected baby teeth was darker than the legends of today. Common belief held that witches could use items that people held close, such as clothes, hair, finger/toe nails, and teeth, to create potions and place curses.

Does the tooth fairy leave a note? ›

Then, with each lost tooth your child can leave a note to the Tooth Fairy in the container, and she can leave them a note, or a small gift, coins–whatever fits inside the container. If your child enjoys jokes, she could leave a tooth-related joke each time. Here are a few to get you started.

Why does a tooth fairy want teeth? ›

What does the tooth fairy do with all the teeth? Tooth fairies use some of the collected teeth to build their fairy kingdom. Have you ever noticed how solid and pristine white a tooth is? It's perfect for these little fairies to make their solid and white fairy castles.

Can a 5 year old lose a tooth? ›

When do kids lose their first tooth? Children usually lose their first tooth around 5 or 6 years old. But every child is unique. Some will lose their first tooth as early as 4 years old or as late as 7 years old.

What's the tooth fairy pay these days? ›

A poll last year by Delta Dental, a large U.S. provider of benefits, pegged the average payout per lost tooth at a record $6.23, from $5.36 in 2022.

Is the tooth fairy real or is it your parents? ›

They point out that there is no scientific evidence to support the existence of the tooth fairy. Additionally, some parents admit to playing the role of the tooth fairy themselves, further fueling doubts about its reality.

Is it normal for a 5 year old to have a loose tooth? ›

On average, children begin losing baby teeth around six years old. If your child starts getting loose teeth before the age of five, contact your dentist. By age 21, your child will likely have all 32 permanent teeth erupted.

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